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100	1		_aWallerstein, Judith S. _973327
245	1	4	_aThe unexpected legacy of divorce : _ba 25 year landmark study / _cby Judith Wallerstein, Julia Lewis and Sandy Blakeslee.
250			_a1st ed.
260			_aNew York : _bHyperion, _cc2000.
300			_axxxv, 347 p. ; _c25 cm.
336			_2rdacontent _atext _btxt
337			_2rdamedia _aunmediated _bn
338			_2rdacarrier _avolume _bnc
504			_aIncludes bibliographical references (p. 327-337( and index.
505	0		_aParallel Universes: Karen and Gary -- When a Child Becomes the Caregiver -- Sunlit Memories -- Growing Up Is Harder -- What If They'd Stayed Together--and What If They Can't? -- When There's No One to Set an Example -- Setting an Example -- The Legacy of Divorce: Larry and Carol -- The Wages of Violence -- Our Failure to Intervene -- Order Out of Chaos -- Family Ties -- Undoing the Past -- The Parentless Child: Paula -- Growing Up Lonely -- Court-Ordered Visiting, the Child's View -- Sex and Drugs -- Evolving Relationships -- The Custody Saga Continues -- The Vulnerable Child: Billy -- The Vulnerable Child -- The Stepfamily -- Picking Up the Pieces, One by One -- My Best Case: Lisa -- Is Not Fighting Enough? -- Children of Divorce.
520			_aTwenty-five years ago, Judith Wallerstein began talking to a group of 131 children whose parents were all going through a divorce. She asked them to tell her about the intimate details of their lives, which they did with remarkable candor. Having earned their trust, Wallerstein was rewarded with a deeply moving portrait of each of their lives as she followed them from childhood, through their adolescent struggles, and into adulthood. With The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce, Wallerstein offers us the only close-up study of divorce ever conducted -- a unique report that will change our fundamental beliefs about divorce and offer new hope for the future.
520	8		_aWallerstein chooses seven children who most embody the common life experiences of the larger group and follows their lives in vivid detail through adolescence and into their love affairs, their marriage successes and failures, and parenting their own children. In Wallerstein's hands, the experiences and anxieties of this generation of children, now in their late twenties to early forties, come to life. We watch as they struggle with the fear that their relationships will fail like those of their parents. Lacking an internal template of what a successful relationship looks like, they must invent their own codes of behavior in a culture that offers many models and few guidelines. Wallerstein shows how many overcame their dread of betrayal to find loving partners and to become successful, protective parents -- and how others are still struggling to find their heart's desire without knowing why they feel so frightened. She also demonstrates their great strengths and accomplishments, as a generation of survivors who often had to raise themselves and help their parents through difficult times.
520	8		_aFor the first time, using a comparison group of adults who grew up in the same communities, Wallerstein shows how adult children of divorce essentially view life differently from their peers raised in intact homes where parents also confronted marital difficulties but decided on balance to stay together. In this way she sheds light on the question so many parents confront -- whether to stay unhappily married or to divorce.
520	8		_aThe Unexpected Legacy of Divorce should be essential reading for all adult children of divorce, their lovers, their partners, divorced parents or those considering divorce, judges, attorneys, and mental health professionals. Challenging some of our most cherished beliefs, this is a book that will forever alter how we think about divorce and its long-term impact on American society.
650		0	_aChildren of divorced parents _zUnited States _vLongitudinal studies. _973328
650		0	_aDivorce _zUnited States _vLongitudinal studies. _96009
700	1		_aLewis, Julia, _d1952- _973329
700	1		_aBlakeslee, Sandra. _973330
852			_9p24.95 _y07-21-2001
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905			_aJudith S. Wallerstein is The founder of the Judith Wallerstein Center for the Family in Transition, she is a senior lecturer emerita at the School of Social Welfare at the University of California at Berkeley
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